First set the mood. Choose a nice, quite and private spot within your home. Then, dim lights to a comfortable setting. In the background, play soft melodic music. Have the volume low enough for you to talk comfortably over. You don’t want the music to be overpowering; it should only serve as a backdrop to the mood.
Use candles, warm lotions or essential oils to enhance his experience. Certain scents can help put your partner in a more relaxed state. Try floral, lavender, sandalwood or vanilla smelling candles and oils for his massage. These scents are known for their stress-reducing, comforting powers.
Begin with your husband lying down on his stomach. You want to start by simply rubbing your hands down his head, neck and back, with no pressure. The objective here is to simply increase the temperature between your hands and his back. Repeat this movement for a couple of minutes to get him use to your touch. Use this time to encourage a little flirty conversation between you two.
Once you feel that your partner is used to your touch, straddle his body (a leg on each side), let your hands press firmly into his back, and begin performing a stroking movement. Start from the neck down. Each stroke should begin from the spine and roll off the sides of his body. Try to keep even pressure between each of your hands. The key here is continuous movement!
Maintain a continuous flow during the entire massage. Make your movements blend together in harmony. Each movement should enhance the pervious and prepare for the next. Make sure your strokes are fluid because a jerky massage will kill the mood, and his back.
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